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MOVING
WITH AUTISM
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Good
morning. My name is Max the Mover. Take a look around
because when you get home today nothing will be here.
That's right. Your house will be gone. Forever. You'll
probably never come back. You know that chair that always
gets the sun? You won't be able to sit there anymore. And
the faucet which always drips and puts you to sleep at
night? Well, you won't hear that anymore. There's no need
to worry. We'll just take all your things and put them in a
new place that you're unfamiliar with. I know. You didn't
choose the new place and you don't want to go there but your
things will be with you so everything is OK. Right? |
Moving can be traumatic to people with autism.
Anyone that's moved houses knows all too well how overwhelming it can
be. There's lawyers, agreements, papers to sign, addresses to change,
packing, buying new things, registering at schools, closing accounts,
transferring telephones and a hundred other things to do. This of
course is in addition to all the daily tasks that you never have enough
time for in the first place! With all the chores, it's hard for us to
realize the emotions of people with autism - particularly because they
often don't express it. Because you have enough to think about, we've
compiled a bunch of ideas to help make the transition a lot smoother for
those with autism.
Make a
count down caterpillar. We recommend you do this at least 2 weeks
before you move. Each day, let your child cross off a number. This
will visually show your child how long it will be until he is in his new
house.

Draw a
picture of your new house with your child. Draw your family all smiling
and happy in the house. Are there things your child loves such as a
favorite game? Draw that in the house too.

Think
of a small gift your child would love. A book, a game or a DVD. Make
sure you take a picture of it and keep reminding your child it will be
waiting at his new house. Make sure you don't pack it as it's important
it's right there for him when he enters his new house for the first
time.
Stick
the picture of this gift he will be receiving in the drawing of your new
house.

Write a
social story. Here are some ideas for you to use:
On _________ we are moving to our new house. The movers will come with
a big truck. They will help us pack our things and take them to our new
home. Our new address is _____________. When I get there, I will find
my ___________ (gift from above) in my new room. It will be waiting for
me on my bed. There are lots of great things in our new home. We have
a big new yard that’s fun to play in. We will put our sofa and TV in
our new living room. I will have my bed and toys in my new bed room.
We are a happy family and we will all be together in our new home.
If you
can, take pictures of your new house. Make copies and put them on the
wall in the bathroom, bedroom, kitchen and other rooms where your child
spends time. This will give you an opportunity to talk about the new
house often.
Explain
all the great things about the new house that you think your child will
like. He might not care that his room will be bigger but perhaps the
street lamp at the bottom of the drive will intrigue him.
Parents are just as important. Here are some tips for you
Moving Tips
Give
notification.
Make sure you notify schools, old and new. Notify the utility companies
and if you are moving out of town, remember to obtain your medical and
dental records. It's also a good idea to send change of address cards to
your friends and relatives.
Items
not to be moved.
Decide which items you don't want to move and either arrange a garage
sale or give them to a charity of your choice. A lot of items you no
longer need might be helpful to friends and family.
One
last look.
When you're finished packing, take a last look. Check all your closets,
your basement, garages and sheds. On such a busy day, it's easy to leave
things behind. Make sure you have everything.
Open
first.
Pack one or two bags to take with you and mark the one or two boxes you
will need immediately in your new home “open first”. This way, upon
arriving at your destination you will know where to find everything you
need.
OOPS! It's very easy to make this common mistake and pack away items
such as your keys, your plane tickets, directions to your new house etc.
While packing, make sure you know where all these items are.
Move Planner
Two to
Three Months Before Moving
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Check into the laws and requirements of your new city regarding
home-based businesses, professional tests, business licenses and any
special laws that might be applicable to you.
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Check schools, and start enrollment and placement testing for your
children (if possible)
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Start to investigate moving companies (See Avoid Choosing the wrong
moving company)
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Make sure that you have a lease on your new apartment, or confirm
the details of the closing of your new home.
One
Month Before Moving
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Get
estimates from the moving companies you have chosen. When you have
all the estimates, call the moving company you have selected. Give
them the date for your move if you have it, or advise them that you
will give them the date when you are able to.
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Fill out change of address order form for post office.
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Fill out an IRS change of address form.
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Make travel arrangements, if necessary, with airlines, buses, car
rental agencies and hotels.
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Transfer memberships in churches, clubs and civic organizations.
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If
you are moving out of state, obtain medical and dental records,
x-rays and prescription histories. Ask doctor and dentist for
referrals and transfer prescriptions.
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Set
up a checking account in your new city.
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Make arrangements for transporting pets.
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Start using up food items, so that there is less left to pack and
possibly spoil.
One To Two Weeks Before Moving
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Switch utility services to new address. Inform electric, disposal,
water, newspaper, magazine subscription, telephone and cable
companies of your move.
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If
you have not yet set up your move date, call your mover to arrange
it.
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Confirm travel reservations.
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Reserve the elevator if moving from an apartment, and find out if
your building has any certificate of insurance requirements.
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Plan ahead for special needs of infants.
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Close bank accounts and have your funds wired to your new bank.
Before closing, be sure there are no outstanding checks or automatic
payments that haven't been processed.
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Collect valuables from safe-deposit box. Make copies of any
important documents before mailing or hand carry them to your new
address.
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Check with your insurance agent to ensure you'll be covered through
your homeowner's or renter's policy during the move. If you require
additional insurance through your mover, call and make arrangements
for this at least 1 week in advance.
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Defrost freezer and refrigerator. Place deodorizer inside to control
odors.
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Give a close friend or relative your travel route and schedule so
you may be reached if needed.
On
Moving Day
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Double check closets, drawers, shelves, attic and garage to be sure
they are empty. Make sure that you go through every room, closet
basement and garage before movers leave your home.
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Make sure you have your keys and directions to your new home
After Arriving At New Home
If
moving out of state…
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Renew your driver's license, auto registration and tags.
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Shop around for new insurance policies, especially auto coverage.
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Revise your will and other legal papers to avoid longer probate and
higher legal fees.
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Locate the hospitals, police stations, veterinarian and fire
stations near your home.
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OF ALL PROFITS ARE DONATED TO HELP CHILDREN WITH AUTISM
All American Van Lines wishes you luck in your new home!
This
article is property of and copyright © 2003-2008 Jene Aviram of Natural
Learning Concepts. Reference of this article may only be included in
your documentation provided that reference is made to the owner - Jene
Aviram and a reference to this site
http://www.nlconcepts.com
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